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'The toughest times of my life...', Robyn Desmier

17/5/2026

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"I found it hard writing this one.  I couldn't really pinpoint one specific year that was tough for me.  However I did find the drought years really hard to take. Living on a farm during a drought is heartbreaking. However we survived and plenty of people have been through worse with fires,  Robyn".

Just looking back, I suppose some of the toughest times for me were the droughts of 1997-1998 and 2006-2007.  We were relatively new to farming after moving from Melbourne in 1991.  It certainly was a challenging time just adapting to farm life and all the scenarios associated with it.

Another tough time - the 1993 floods when we received 12 inches of rain over a 3 day period.  I remember hearing the rain on our tin roof and thinking when is it going to stop.  I suppose we were lucky as we came through it relatively unscathed, except for the loss of a few lambs.  The cattle ended up on the banks of the dam, so we were able to feed hay out to them. However we did have a windfall with the top soil from our neighbours farm being washed onto our paddocks.

In 1997 we had the beginning of a drought.  We planted over a 1,000 trees in August that year, given to us by Landcare.  It was hard work as the ground was hard and at that time there weren’t many Hamilton Tree Planters available, so my husband had to use a crowbar.  We waited for the rain but it never came and we lost all the trees.  Some years later we were given another 2,000 trees to plant.  The prisoners from Beechworth came to help us plant them. This was organised through Landcare.  The trees are still there today.

In 1998 we still hadn’t had rain by April then the frosts came.  I counted over 30 days in a row and one morning when we had -6 our hot water system blew up.  Most days our water was frozen until late morning when it finally thawed.  During the drought we were regularly buying truck loads of water for the house. Eventually it rained in July.

In 2006 the Spring was the driest on record in the North East District and on our farm we experienced very low rainfall and water shortages.  Our dams dried up and our largest dam became two small dams.  It was very shallow and we could walk across it.
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Our largest dam became two small dams
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​Our dam which fed our troughs and garden was very deep, but it even became very low.
Whilst we had the drought to contend with in 2006, we had the fires in early 2007.  The Mount Buffalo National Park was on fire and at night all we could see was a red glow in the distance.  It was a frightening time for us as there were fires quite close in Tatong.  The smoke was there every day and we had our bags packed just in case.   We had 69 days of fires.   It was truly a frightening experience and one we will never forget.  Then the rains came.
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Our flooded backyard
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The dams filled overnight
When the rain came our dams were filled overnight. We had a seasonal creek running through our property and when it rained up the Valley the creek would start to flow.

It certainly was a learning curve for us living through the droughts.  Living on the land has its ups and downs as the weather is the governing factor for survival.  We did learn resilience, adaption and the delicate balance of life.  We learnt to appreciate the good times and adapt to the bad times.
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Robyn Desmier
May, 2026
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'The toughest year of my life', John Holschier

16/5/2026

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​‘The Toughest Year of My Life’
 
My principal, Rob, was talking with R. and his mum. R, at eight, was the kid in the school who, if, when on playground duty, I didn’t know where he was, I was worried. I joined the conversation in time to hear them agree that, if R misbehaved, we were to call his mum, and she would pick him up.
 
I’d had years of being the teacher of the senior class at Falls Creek School (NSW) but had been taken off that and was doing remedial work and relief from face to face. Rob was taking the senior class, which didn’t work very well as he often had to be off class doing principal work.
 
I had R in my first remedial reading class of the day. He was mucking around and I asked him where his behaviour book was. He’d left it in his classroom. I started writing a report on a piece of paper which he grabbed and screwed up.
 
I went to the senior classroom and told Rob.
 
Early in the year I had tried to donate blood but couldn’t because my blood iron was too low. As part of the investigation for the cause, I had a colonoscopy/gastroscopy.
 
Rob asked me to supervise his year 5, 6 class while he made the call. They were between lessons, so I had to ad lib. I told them that after recess I would be doing maths with year six and then year five. Some of the year six girls rudely complained about having to go out and do maths. I was winging it and tried to calm them and just wait until Rob returned. When he eventually did, I went on to my next job which was assisting the teacher of the youngest class in the adjacent room. As I entered, I realised that I was so upset and angry that I couldn’t face it so I made an excuse and gave myself a few minutes time out.
 
The previous year I’d been struggling with a kind of mid-life crisis and Rob had, at my request, organised counselling, which was freely available to teachers. 
 
The year six maths lesson was about problem solving. They argued that it was useless and boring. I tried to explain that problem solving was the most important maths skill to have as an adult, but they were just rude. I couldn’t wait for year five who were much better behaved.
 
As the teacher of the senior class, I had authority through the school because I was the ‘big kids teacher’. Now I was a dogsbody and felt like I had no authority.
 
The surgeon had told me that he hadn’t found anything to cause my lack of blood iron, but a couple of months later I developed another medical condition that required surgery, coincidentally with the same surgeon. His first sentence at our appointment was “So, you’ve come to talk about Coeliac Disease”. The next day I went to a funeral and as we gathered afterwards I saw nothing that I could eat.
 
Year six and year five came in. A couple of kids started mucking around, the last straw. I yelled and hurled a chair at the wall. The kids were excellent after that, but the story went home to parents.
 
The operation was successful, but in the following week I developed a very awkward infection which put me out of action for several weeks.
 
The next day, Rob called me into his office to tell me that I was suspended from teaching pending an investigation. Fortunately, he backed me and I was cleared, but it was the beginning of the end for my teaching career.
 
Nobody asked me what was wrong.
 
 
John Holschier
May 2026
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    The toughest year of my life ...('Annus Horribilis')

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    Were you ever warned, “Life’s not all beer and skittles”?
    Share your memories of the toughest year of your life and how you managed to come through the challenges it threw at you.
    Queen Elizabeth described 1992 as her annus horribilis; her children’s marriages fell apart in a blaze of publicity and one of her houses went up in flames.
    Describe the challenges you faced during your annus horribilis. Explain how you managed to cope with what life was throwing at you. What strategies did you use to get through the year? In the face of adversity what did you learn about yourself? You might reflect on how you view the year in hindsight.
    (The guidelines for ‘Failure’ could help if you are finding it hard to know where to start)
    (If the timeframe of a year isn’t quite right in terms of fit, feel free to change it…)
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