At first glance, “grave-digger” might seem an unusual topic for a U3A gathering, but Mark’s warmth, humour and remarkable life story soon had everyone thoroughly engaged.
Mark described a working life shaped less by careful planning and more by a willingness to say, “Sounds like a good idea!” That attitude led him through a variety of jobs before spending ten years as a Funeral Director, helping families through difficult times with kindness and practical support.
Eventually, the emotional weight of funeral work became too much, and Mark and his son moved into the grave-digging business. Today they service small rural cemeteries across a huge area — from north of Melbourne to the Victorian–NSW border and across toward Corryong.
Members were fascinated to learn that grave-digging involves far more than a shovel. The work requires trench-diggers, jackhammers, pumps, engineering knowledge and plenty of problem-solving. Mark explained that when rain fills a grave with water, the job simply becomes: pump it out and carry on.
The audience was especially interested in changing funeral practices. Shroud burials are becoming more popular and are available locally at Winton and Moorngag cemeteries. Surprisingly, cardboard coffins may have a greater environmental impact than traditional wooden ones.
Mark also shared stories about urgent burials required within 24 hours for some religious traditions, where speed, sensitivity and respect are all essential.
Adding humour to the morning, Mark said work-experience students often love helping out — and become very popular at school afterwards because of their unusual placement stories.
Although the topic could have been sombre, the morning was anything but gloomy. Mark’s talk gave a fascinating glimpse into an unusual profession, while reminding us of the humanity, care and quiet humour that often accompany life’s final farewell.
U3A Meeting Room 1, Fawckner Drive
Topic to be confirmed
Jane Rushworth